差一點就差很多的親子溝通術(全圖解)
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差一點就差很多的親子溝通術(全圖解)

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差一點就差很多的親子溝通術(全圖解): 14. 82132 YES NG

作者: 童童老師


──完整圖解親子溝通,修復家庭關係──
今天的你又忍不住大吼了嗎?
每天立志要當優雅雙親的你,
把「溫和而堅定」貼在牆上的你,
在崩潰前還在默念「不生氣心經」的你,
在面對小孩聽不懂、講不通、秒崩潰的每個當下,
你是戰──失聲大吼;
還是逃—─假裝事情沒發生過,關係卻已經出現裂痕;
或總在事發當下僵住,不知如何反應。
我們都想好好說話,但面對孩子各種失序暴走,
有沒有更好的方法,讓我們有機會聽進彼此的話?
 
【隨書附贈】親子溝通練習簿
.完整溝通練習題,讓孩子也能和大人一起學習如何表達。
.附贈給大人的實用小撇步,親子一起複習愛的說話術。
(規格14.8×21公分,32頁)
 
  【關於溝通,我們都弄錯的事】
  • 你的溝通,是為了讓孩子聽話,還是讓孩子聽得進去你說的話?
  • 為什麼好聲好氣說話,但開口後衝突卻反而擴大?
  • 到底是誰說用愛的教育,孩子就能自動被感化?
 
  溝通需要準備,也需要技巧,童童老師從腦科學、心理學、神經科學,整理出「讓你好好說,孩子好好聽」的五大溝通技巧,有練有保庇。
 
  • 給予選擇權──小孩才做選擇?YES!正確提供選擇權,讓你們一起找到前往目標的路徑。
  • 轉換肯定句──把「你不可以!」換成「請你這樣」。
  • 同理──學習刻意練習同理,接住孩子情緒。
  • 擴充彈性──從練習同理─堅持規則─提供替代選項中,讓孩子增加調節能力。
  • 順應邏輯──換個角度再來一次,找出解決方法,才能打開溝通死結。
 
  ──那些年,雙親必踩的地雷話術,你中了幾個?──
  ✔你這是什麼態度?
  ✔再五分鐘喔!
  ✔沒寫完就不能玩玩具!
  ✔你可以專心一點嗎!
  ✔你就不能學姊姊嗎? 
  ✔這麼簡單你都不會!
  避開NG語法,換個句型再來一次,每天一點點調整,就能帶來不同結果。
 
  即使努力溝通,但我們也知道不會馬上解決問題,親子溝通是每天每天的修行,所以需要每天每天的複習,因為我們想給孩子很多很多的愛,所以花很多很多的力氣,和孩子一起成長。
 
作者
 
童童老師
 
  本名童雋哲,畢業於中山醫學大學職能治療學系、台灣大學腦與心智科學研究所,現任幼思職能治療所負責人。
 
  專長為神經科學、感覺統合、兒童發展、職能治療與評估、教養諮詢、兒童情緒調節與訓練、亞斯伯格特質兒童人際訓練、過動與注意力不足之評估與治療。
 
  在協助過許多家庭後,開設臉書粉絲專頁「童童老師的孩子這樣說」,以簡易的圖文說明複雜的腦科學、心理學、神經科學等,讓更多父母能理解孩子的行為、情緒。提供確切有效的方式,讓父母能以適當的方式輔助,解決孩子的各種疑難雜症,因此廣受父母好評。
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Interesting
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So I will say I enjoyed the story, for sure had its moments where it dragged but it was a great story. I really liked that omegas picked their alphas/make the pack. Normally the Alphas make it and the omega fits in with them which is great but I enjoyed this new version where all the power basically went to the omega. It was a nice change of pace. I can admit some of the weird bedroom stuff with her being pregnant was odd, it’s really not hard to do stuff when pregnant (I know I’ve had two and it’s normal and even encouraged at the end especially if you want the baby out). But I like the story as a whole and will read the second, I do hope the next one isn’t dragged bc it stopped being action or tense after she met her alphas and I don’t think it was brought up or properly done when they tried to do it. More sweet after she left.
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I usually like Jillian West’s books but this one was missing a lot for me. The pregnancy didn’t come across as real. She’s on her feet for 12 hour days but is perfectly healthy at 8 months pregnant? Yet the week she moves in all of a sudden she’s not? She is planning on actually running during one of the plot buildups. But at 8 months pregnant that’s incredibly hard to do. The lack of breathing ability and lung space, the change in body center, mass, and gravity. All of it prohibits running, unless you’re an athlete this didn’t come off as at all realistic. I didn’t feel any connection with the alphas. There wasn’t any emotional connection. It could be because of the tense it was written in. But I didn’t get any deep feelings out of this. It came across as checking off boxes. Even the spicy scenes weren’t really believable for me. I wanted to see them fall for her, and it just kind of all fizzled. Even Bishop. One thing I did really like was the ending. I did not see it coming and I’m interested in reading book two because of it. But on the whole this book was mostly disappointing for me.
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I fell into a false sense of security and really thought this was gearing towards a happy ending. Then I realized there’s no work they don’t punish Andrew. I really liked Vale’s character. I don’t normally read books with pregnancy but going into this knowing she was pregnant made it more enjoyable for me. I loved Bishops devotion to her and her happiness. I also loved that Holt and Mercy couldn’t fight their attraction to her. I love scent matches so very much. I’m so curious to see how this duet will end up. And I need to pay more attention and notice that a book I’m starting is a duet to begin with lol
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