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面對職場討厭鬼的精準回話術:不委屈、不引戰,不留話柄又解氣的最佳臨場反應: : IE 7X 26X10 26 xx >>> >>> >>>^^ >>> >>> 1967302017
作者: 後藤千繪 | 譯者: 蔡麗蓉
★不想內傷的I人、不願吃虧的E人,必看!★
溝通,要留給聽得懂人話的對象。
省下爭論和回嗆的情緒消耗,
不受傷害又贏得尊重的秒回反應力。
7大職場怪獸解析X 26個場景回話範例X10項臨場不嘴軟的練習
遭遇遷怒排擠、八卦刺探和甩鍋背刺時,
懂得何時不用反應、敷衍就好,何時又該表達立場、直接回嗆!
◎每個上班族的辦公室,都有這些有毒的討厭鬼──
◇以為和同事交情不錯,結果發現關於你的八卦,別人都是聽他說的。
◇後輩自認比你厲害,直接開酸「這個都不會喔」?當眾讓你沒面子。
◇前輩明明老是犯錯,卻總是把責任推給別人,千錯萬錯都是別人錯。
◇一逮到機會,就開始狂講當年勇──已經聽過五百萬遍了。
▶︎自大狂、玻璃心、挑剔鬼、假面仙和背刺小人……上班時的心累,都來自應付這些有毒人際!
作者後藤千繪是一位幹練的女律師,但在職場上,也曾飽受性別歧視和霸凌之苦。後藤律師拿手的案件為家事類,而近年來則是接到許多在職場上遭遇同事和主管行動和言語霸凌的當事人來諮詢。她以擔任律師多年在法庭與質詢上的回應技巧,以「不做無意義的回應和爭論」為重點,提供擋掉霸凌和惡意並讓對方自討沒趣的回話技巧。
◎【初階技巧】面對七大類職場討厭鬼的精準回話對策
‧「需要更多認同」的狂刷存在感>「你真的最棒了!沒有你其他同事怎麼辦?」
‧「挑三揀四、揪著人錯處」的完美主義>「哇~拜託教教我該怎麼做才好?」
‧「壓力一大就擺臭臉、開罵開酸」的情緒化遷怒>「我不是出氣筒,你冷靜下來再談。」
‧「專挑看起來弱勢的一方欺負」的惡霸>「你這是什麼意思?這是職場霸凌!」
◎【回話實戰篇】26種辦公室場景對話實例,不起衝突也不吃虧的聰明反擊!
‧「隔壁部門的xx靠關係升職耶!」突然湊過來想討論八卦
>>>「喔。」面無表情、不評論也不附和。
‧「你到底是怎麼進來我們公司的啊?」貶低、污辱、否定
>>>「『怎麼進來公司』是什麼意思?所以你覺得主管做錯決定嗎?」
‧「住家裡都不用多花錢,好好喔~」話中帶刺、酸言酸語
>>>「真的。好感謝爸媽^^~」以不回嗆的口吻敷衍回應
‧「你下班都這麼準時,要去約會喔?」一直想聊你的私事
>>>「原來你這麼關心我,好感動。」直接有禮貌的岔開話題
‧「(發點心時,自己被刻意跳過)……?」被同事們消極的排擠
>>>「點心沒發到我耶。/請問我做錯什麼了嗎?」找上帶頭者直球對決
◎職場上的妖魔鬼怪,可惡之人必有可憐之處
對這些討厭鬼感到害怕、不知該如何應付,只好總是忍氣吞聲?
這些職場討厭鬼,其實都是心裡有弱點的人,要不是「對現狀不滿」,要不就是「對未來焦慮」,他們內心都很脆弱,無法自行化解內心的不滿及焦慮,才會透過騷擾他人來分散注意力。
他們用相反的方式表現出來,就是為了隱藏自己脆弱的地方;只要把握住這些討厭鬼的心理弱點,就能在保護自己工作情緒之下,不傷和氣的聰明回話。
◎打造敢於回話、不嘴軟的心理建設
如果沒辦法馬上做出回應,只要記得,回應討厭鬼的最高守則,在於「不要浪費力氣」,不要試圖爭論,也不必想著要好好應對(對方聽不懂人話,別浪費時間)。就算臨場反應不足,重要的是先保護好自己的情緒,把職場霸凌的影響內耗降到最低。
─突然被質問、被責備時,比起慌張的回話,先深呼吸、讓自己冷靜下來。
─想像「你對職場的所有同事沒有任何期待」,建立起內心的屏障。
─同事就只是同事,維持好上班時的關係就好。
─絕對不要輕易當好人,有一就有二。
─幫最討厭的那個職場怪獸取一個好笑的綽號(在心裡稱呼就好)。
作者
後藤千繪
現職為律師。1967年出生於京都府,從大阪大學文學院畢業後,曾任職於某大型產物保險公司,也曾在某大型補習班擔任講師,也曾是職場霸凌和情緒騷擾的被害者。30歲後決定轉職,從事法律職業,於2017年獨立創業、成立「菲利斯律師事務所」,所有工作人員都是女性。
後藤律師專門處理離婚和繼承等家庭案件,近年來也專注於打擊職場上的道德騷擾。她為許多苦於「職場討厭鬼」霸凌與騷擾的上班族,提供法律上的建議之外,也從多年法庭實戰經驗中,提出保護自己情緒為優先、不以講贏對方為目標的回話技巧。
譯者
蔡麗蓉
樂在堆疊文字之美,享受譯介語言之趣,盼初心常在,譯作年年增長。
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