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可以生氣,但不要動不動就發脾氣:養成讓人生好轉的不生氣習慣

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可以生氣,但不要動不動就發脾氣:養成讓人生好轉的不生氣習慣: = =

作者:種市勝覺 譯者 : 盧姿敏


       ★專注於「想要的情緒」而不是「想要的結果」★

  ★請問你平常是否容易出現以下的狀況?
  □容易焦躁沮喪。
  □常被自己的情緒左右,覺得心很累。
  □人際關係不順,經常與人起衝突。
  □容易發脾氣,事後又為此懊悔不已。
  □時不時會被一些瑣碎的小事激怒。
 
  有這些情況的你,很可能在無意識中陷入「希望所有事情都稱心如意」的心理陷阱,導致長年處於慢性焦慮的狀態,把自己和他人都逼得太緊:
 
  ◆訂下三個月要瘦十公斤的目標,無法達成的我真是沒用……
  ◆辦公室裡面一堆笨蛋,做得不怎樣為什麼還笑得出來?
  ◆家人都不愛聽我說話,明明我是關心他們啊!
 
  要從這樣的陷阱中解脫,就要學會分辨
  ‧自力圈=自己可以干涉的事物
  ‧他力圈=自己無法影響的事物
 
  人的情緒之所以容易起伏,就是因為把注意力都放在他力圈上,被那些自己無法控制的事情耍得團團轉。
 
  有意識地練習區別「自力」和「他力」的差異,就能放鬆緊繃的心理框架,進而改變自己看待事物的觀點。如此一來,面對不順利、不符合期待的發展時,可以慢慢以比較輕鬆的心情看待,負面情緒也不容易被啟動。
 
  意識到每天是以何種情緒在過日子,光是這一點就足以改變自己的人生選擇。維持心情的穩定,就能迎來充滿幸福感的快樂人生!
 
  【從今天開始,這樣練習「不生氣」】
  ◎焦慮時請條列自己可以做的事,能更清楚掌握自力圈和他力圈。
  ◎別人的行為反應屬於「他力圈」範圍,所以請停止對他人抱持過高的期待。
  ◎利用「瞬間切換注意力焦點」來避免反覆沉浸在負面情緒或回憶中。
  ◎爭吵時,請練習以「聆聽對方的心聲」為優先,不要急著說自己的意見。
  ◎重視自己的夢想,無論是多小的相關行動,想到了就請去做吧。
  ◎該生氣的時候還是可以生氣,別讓「不應該生氣」成為另一個新的束縛。
 
作者 

種市勝覺
 
  風水顧問、密教風水諮詢。大學畢業時,除了學習風水思想,同時也開始密教修行,並獲得灌頂入壇的資格,成為空海密教阿闍梨。
 
  目前以「整頓財‧體‧心流」為主軸,以風水顧問和密教風水諮詢的身分為業。也是會員制的「風水咖啡紅鋅礦」的負責人,宗旨是改變人對「金錢、健康、心靈、時間、人際關係」等各種領域的認知。以獨特的手法經營會員諮詢、研討會和到府鑑定等業務。
 
  著有《你想要的,有九成都會實現》(智富出版)、《好情緒.空間整理術》(方智出版)、《只要注意這一點就不必再為錢苦惱了》(暫譯)等書。
 
譯者
 
盧姿敏
 
  成功大學歷史系畢業。喜歡出國旅行、流連歐美的歌劇院和音樂廳。新冠疫情改變了世界,意外讓園藝及老家修繕整理變成生活的一部分,也重拾中斷許久的書籍翻譯工作。在動與靜之間,窺見自然的奧祕、體會手作化腐朽為神奇的樂趣,並透過翻譯這扇窗安撫蠢蠢欲動的好奇心。著有《老天有交代,這輩子要狠狠玩一次》(皇冠出版)。譯有《有趣到不可思議的樹木果實圖鑑》、《最討厭的哥哥死了》、《加法斷捨離》(遠流出版)。
 
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